Why Is Forgiveness So Hard?…

Why Is Forgiveness So Hard?

Ugh, the word forgiveness…it can make the skin crawl, it can bring up a frog in the throat, it can make the heart race a million miles a minute & it can also make one feel like they just want to throw up. Why?

Forgiveness has zero to do with the other person, it has EVERYTHING to do with ourselves. Yep, mic drop, insert cartwheel & give the lucky person on the front row a cold towel to put around their neck.

Yes! Forgiveness is about US, OURSELVES, ME, MYSELF & I.

When we allow ourselves to go deep into our own subconscious mind, our own internal reflections of memory, our own depth of spiritual pain & our own ability to understand ego is a defense mechanism then we begin to realize ‘out here’ as people why we create situations that test our ability to forgive. It’s the test to see if we can forgive SELF in order to allow forgiveness for OTHERS.

If you are undergoing a situation right now where you are feeling pain or heartbreak then sit back for a second and evaluate how you created and manifested this exact moment in time to you. Now, if you jump to conclusions to defend yourself and say, “Shelby, there is NO WAY I created or manifested this situation to me!” Oh really? Then why is it happening TO YOU? Our energy brings us what we need to learn and what our soul is calling for us to learn. Why? So we can drop into forgiveness with ourselves so we become even more loving, kind, patient and non-judgmental to ourselves.

Our lives is never about others, until it is about them. It is ALL about SELF and FORGIVENESS of SELF due to SPIRITUAL PAIN buried at the deepest layers of our energetic field. It is only through forgiveness that the path to redemption is laid. We must first have to forgive what brought up the walls of illusion, the walls of defense and the wall of the almighty ‘I know it all’ that resides in each and every single one of us. It is the dance of ego and spirit in order to balance the blessing that each one provides in our daily lives.

So why is forgiveness so hard? Because it creates a distraction to ourselves in order to see ourselves. Forgiveness forces the engagement between others that then creates the tension to create the trigger to create the explosion in order to no longer distract from the truth of that which the soul is ready to purge and heal. It is energy and it is real. The ENERGY of our own being is asking for forgiveness so it can return to its highest form of purity and then that is what brings the ultimate peace and harmony to our lives and our relationships.

If you truly want to move through the art of forgiveness then learn that forgiveness needs to move through the energy centers of the body aka the chakra system. When one creates a trigger moment that brings up spiritual pain it is easier to drop into ‘forgiveness’ to forgive the pain and move it through each energy center of the body in order to clear that energy of pain at the highest level & transmute it.

For so long it has been taught to do forgiveness at a ‘mental’ level; however true soul forgiveness is at a spiritual level transmuted through the energy centers of the body.

Forgiveness is also about overcoming fear and learning the process of how to do forgiveness that is effective, efficient & helps all of those involved for the highest healing possible.

Allow your journey of the new way to forgive to begin now…

Until next time…


For more information on energy forgiveness click here.  



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Shelby Carino

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Shelby Carino is a recovering addict of failed relationships. Through a near death experience that spun her into her spiritual…

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