The Hardest Lesson Of The Twin Flame Journey For The Chaser Twin 🔥🔥🔥
Reading questions like: “my twin lies to me, cheats on me, texts other women, watches porn obsessively, then hides it, is rude or disrespectful, non-commital, cancels meetings…selfish, unsupportive, even narcissistic and self-centered, What do I do?”
I always have only one answer to this…
You may hold them on the pedestal right now for having awakened you, for being your twin, for feeling that Divine love like no other but this doesn’t give them ANY special advantages or right to treat you like sh*t.
Trust me when I say that this too is a lesson in the twin flame journey that is teaching you self-love.
Twin flame or not in order for your twin to see your value you have to see it, honor FIRST and have the courage to walk away from anything less than (putting yourself first). Quit worrying about him and his behavior and start worrying about you.
- 💖 What are your values?
- 💖 What do you want in a relationship?
- 💖 Own it, embody it and create strong boundaries that are in alignment with what you want.
This is one of the most important steps in the twin flame awakening journey. It’s teaching you your worth and self-respect. It means walking away even if you love your twin so much that you don’t know how you’ll survive without them. Through this physical process, you will start upgrading your worth, so that your twin can mirror it back to you eventually…
BUT, if you have weak boundaries and ignore integrating this, your twin may repeat disrespecting you or walking away until you master it.
No, it’s not some toxic mind game, but if they are your true mirror, they will feel your energy and if it’s not where it needs to be, they will mirror to you what you need to heal next. 🔥🔥🔥
This is not like any box standard 3d relationship with un-awaken people that you can manipulate. It won’t work! Twins are true lightworkers guiding each other home to their most authentic core. This is why these relationships are so hard to navigate because we STRUGGLE TO NAVIGATE OURSELVES with honesty, authenticity, self-respect and seld-trust.
It’s simple, yet very hard because most ‘chaser’ twins fear the loss of this Divine love and try to hold on for dear life regardless of how they are treated. You have to let go… if this is happening to you and work on your worth, self-respect, values, self-esteem and healthy boundaries.
If it’s your true twin, the love in your heart will only grow fonder. (You won’t be able to control this with logic, because the heart pull is stronger than reason). If it’s not your twin, you will forget and move on quickly.
Getting real with yourself is the hardest lesson of all. Twin or not the universe is teaching you to be the person you want to attract.
Have you experienced this in your journey? And how did you handle it?
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