Sivana Podcast: How To Better Understand Our Relationship With The Material World – A Lakshmi Story…

Episode #25

Sivana Podcast: How To Better Understand Our Relationship With The Material World – A Lakshmi Story

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Ashton Szabo

One of the biggest challenges we all face in life is learning to accept life as it is, instead of…
One of the biggest challenges we all face in life is learning to accept life as it is, instead of…

The Full Discussion

Wealth, power and other aspects of the material world can often be viewed as barriers to living a spiritual life. In this episode, we’ll explore a story of the Goddess Lakshmi as well as her Eight Aspects to help us better understand our relationship with the material world. We’ll ask basic questions of whether or not it’s necessary to give up all material possessions in order to live a spiritual life. These stories will help us look at our relationship to money and its place in our lives, as Lakshmi invites us to look into the deepest motivations behind our actions.  Join us on an exploration of what it means to live abundantly in the world.

Ashton:

Greetings everyone! Welcome to the sivana podcast. Ashton Szabo here, your host.



Today we’re going to talk about life, about abundance, about our relationship to the gifts of the material world, specifically we’re going to be talking about the Goddess Lakshmi today. And often, people feel like to live a spiritual life you have to give up your relationship to material things. That those material things are preventing you from realizing truth. People even point towards India in the image of the naked ash covered yogi, as their example as to the spiritual being who has renounced the material world.

Luckily for us though we have images and stories like those of the Goddess Lakshmi, that teaches reverence and appreciation for what the material world holds. In our earlier episodes we explored stories of Kali and Saraswati.  

Today we get to dive into Lakshmi. We’re going to dive into a story of Lakshmi, but we’re going to focus more on what are called “The Eight Aspects of Lakshmi” sometimes even called “The Ashta Lakshmi” or “The Eight forms of Lakshmi”.



It’s many of the monastic systems of Hindu philosophy that tend to give people the idea that wealth is shunned in India or that has no place in Indian spirituality and that includes patanjali raja yoga and even Advaita Vedanta. But as far back as the Rigveda, we have mentions of Sri of Lakshmi and Laskshmi is the very abundance of life itself.  In text like the devi-mahatmyam, Lakshmi is the Goddess in this sense and she defeats a demon a Mahishasura, who symbolizes what is called the cheap the chitta shakti or distraction caused by the subtle desires of the subconscious. Now we’re not getting into that story today.

But what we learn from that story is that by removing the distractions of the mind, divine potentiality begins to blossom and the big distraction, and the emphasis of our podcast today is that wanting and desiring the gifts of Lakshmi are the problem. Not the gifts themselves that she bestows. It’s by wanting all these material things so badly, that you’re never free to really enjoy them. You suffer until you get them, if you get them. And once you do, you suffer for fear of losing them.

So what are the eight aspects of Lakshmi?

They’re wealth, food, patience, knowledge, victory, strength or energy, power and fortune. We’re actually going to to add one more to our conversation today, it’s not considered one of the eight aspects of Lakshmi but it will be very relevant to our conversation today, and that’s beauty. But we’ll dive in all of these things individually as well, but before we do that, let’s start our story.

There are many stories of the Goddess Lakshmi. She’s been associated with Indra the king of the gods, as the wife of Vishnu, as belonging to the demons, as well as being considered a completely stand alone Goddess of all creation and there are individual stories for all of those things. The story we’re going to share today is a story that’s told in many fashions and how it’s told usually will convey different ideas. It’s actually a story that no doubt we’ll address again in a future podcast. But today’s telling will give us some great insight into Lakshmi and what she represents.

So once upon a time. the Goddess Lakshmi was invoked by the demons. And as a result these demons, all became extremely powerful. But the demons plundered and hoarded the gifts of the world, they didn’t understand them. They wanted control over things, they wanted to possess everything, so it wasn’t long until Lakshmi left them. And this is actually a theme that goes throughout a lot of Lakshmi stories. She’s known for being quite fickle. But after leaving the demons, she goes to Indra, the king of the gods, but Indra is kind of a lush and he’s often drunk and he loves spending time in the company of the heavenly ladies. And one day, a sage by the name of Durvasa saw Indra and offered him a beautiful garland of flowers. Indra dismissed the sage and carelessly just tossed the garland over his elephant’s head, but it missed and it fell to the floor. When it fell on the floor, it got trampled by his elephant and this was seen as a rejection of the blessings of the Goddess herself by kind of just giving away the. garland haphazardly not showing any care to it. He was seen as rejecting a gift of the Goddess.

So Durvasa cursed Indra and the other gods. All of the gods he proclaimed, will lose their health and their wealth, you shall lose your youth and become old and decrepit. And as soon as the words left his mouth the curse came to be. As the gods all lost their vitality, Lakshmi disappeared into the ocean of milk, and with Lakshmi gone, the world instantly became dull, became colorless and lifeless. The earth stopped sprouting and giving life, they say that cows stop giving milk. So all the gods ran to Vishnu, the preserver and asked for his help. Vishnu actually said that the gods need to enlist the help of the demons and the churn the milky ocean in order to bring Lakshmi back, as well as what’s called the amrita, the nectar of immortality which would give the gods their their lost youth and vitality back.

So they wouldn’t got the demons and then they go to this mountain called Mandara, which represents space.  And they get a rope, that rope was a serpent called Ananta or Shesha, which represents times, that space and time. And here you’ve got the positive and negative forces of life, the gods and the demons and they’re combining to churn the ocean of milk, the ocean of causality. And so the churn is the mountain, it’s the space within, which everything happens. So you’ve got space, you’ve got time you’ve got the negative and positive forces of the universe all coming together.

Now one point, the mountain even starts to slip down into the ocean and it’s Vishnu who comes and takes the form of a giant tortoise to help prop the mountain back up. Even when both the demons and the gods start getting tired, it’s Vishnu again who comes and takes the form of a thousand arms to help both sides churn the ocean. Eventually, all sorts of wonderful things come out of the ocean, all kinds of boons, all kinds of gifts arise, even eventually Lakshmi too, rises back up out of the ocean. She’s seated on a on a glowing red Lotus covered in a beautiful red and gold sari. She’s ordained with jewels and golden ornaments. And when she arrived, both sides the gods and the demons just kind of stopped in awe, and they saw this is beautiful majestic woman, who brought with her all the bounty, all the color all the radiance of life.

And they started clamoring over one another in attempt to please her like, “Hey, Lakshmi! Look at me! Over here! They all wanted to impress her, they all wanted her attention, they all wanted her boons. But she looked around, she noticed one being who seemed totally disinterested in the entire scene and that was Vishnu. So she went up to Vishnu and she took the garland of flowers that was around her neck and she placed it around Vishnu’s neck, signifying that she was choosing Vishnu to be her husband. And so, it’s said that Lakshmi blesses those who don’t chase after her, indeed she blesses or she gives her blessings to those who worship her husband.

And what is her husband Vishnu represent?

Well he’s the preserver god, the god that helps support all of life. So if you want the bounty that life has to offer, don’t go seeking the bounty itself, go help life, thrive, support others and that’s what brings the gifts of Lakshmi.

And so what are the gifts of Lakshmi?

What are the eight aspects of Lakshmi?

We’ll talk about the first aspect, and I say first, but there’s no particular order with these. We’re just going to kind of go through the list and the first on our list is “Wealth”

It really only takes one look at corporate America to realize the trappings of prioritizing wealth. And people over profits is and has been the cause of some of the greatest tragedies in the world. And you only have to look and gaze into the life of an average American to see the cost of people prioritizing wealth. Life becomes an eternal struggle of not enough. In America, children are told,

“Well you better do well in school, so you can get into a good college. You have to do well in college so you can get a good job and you need a good job to be able to afford I.E. buy all the things you’ll need to be happy.”

This gives off the illusion, that it’s money that will buy you happiness. And if you’re not making good money in your job, you can’t possibly be happy. Never mind passion, never mind doing what you love if you’re not making loads of money. You won’t be happy or so they tell us.
What Lakshmi wants to show us is that, it’s not money or wealth itself that is the problem. It’s the desire to acquire more of it, for its own sake and thinking that money itself will fulfill you. This is a theme we explore quite a bit as well in our Ganesha mini-series which was episodes nine, eleven and thirteen of the sivana podcast. But it gets addressed here in our conversation of Lakshmi as well. It’s not about rejecting wealth, it’s about understanding our relationship to it. And if money comes or goes, great! It does that. That is in essence what it does, it comes and goes. But if you make it the driving force of your life, organize your life around acquiring it within the blessings of the Goddess Lakshmi will turn away from you. Like the demons who attained all the wealth, all the boons from Lakshmi, but didn’t understand its blessings and attempted then to gain more and more of it and hoarded. That’s when Lakshmi left them, that’s when Lakshmi will leave you, her gifts will leave you and you suffer.

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So let’s move on to Food, the second aspect of Lakshmi.

Anyone, I mean truly anyone who’s studied nutrition knows everyone’s got a theory. They all have science to back it up it seems and it contradicts the guy over there in his theory who also seems to have his own scientific study to support his or her claim. Fat is bad for you or wait maybe it’s good for you, gluten is the cause of all your problems or wait maybe it’s not, eat meat, don’t eat meat, atkins diet, south beach, diet, this diet, that diet. Our modern American relationship to food is bipolar to say the least. And more I think, it’s safe to say of course that there are some basic things to be aware of when it comes to food and health, like it’s probably not a good idea to live off pop tarts and soda, potato chips and fast food.

It’s time for us to let. Go of our obsession with food. Perhaps when you can view food as medicine you allow yourself an opportunity to listen, to be receptive to the needs and aversions of your own body. And this doesn’t come by obsessive thinking of the mind but from a deep listening, a deep accepting. It takes something like chocolate cake, let’s pretend it’s later in the evening and you’re thinking about eating a bite of that chocolate cake. Most consider something like chocolate cake is like a naughty or a bad food, that obsession then leads like, “Well, if I’m I’m good, if I don’t eat it. I’m bad if I do.”  If you eat it, you have somehow failed like, “oh my gosh, you’re just a terrible person.”

Now while you might have a hard time arguing about the physical health benefits of chocolate cake, that doesn’t detract from what you might actually get from it mentally or emotionally. Maybe that chocolate cake is just what you need, maybe it soothes you and calms you. And that psychological fact, might outweigh any negative nutritional effect. But again obviously, it can get beyond done by eating chocolate cake every single night perhaps or overpowering your body a bit. But I mean, surely one of the point I’m trying to make is that how we treat food, how we approach our eating of it is a lot more complex than a black and white, this is good for you and this is bad for you type conversation.

And there’s a great story I think it’s a Swami Shivananda. But I could be totally incorrect in my memory of it. It’s kind of relevant anyways. But there’s this yogi and every day he’s sitting down with people feeding everyone, enjoying the company of his spiritual community and all day long that’s what he does he sits with people, he feeds them and eats with them. As one might expect, he starts to put on some serious weight and his wife comes up to him and says,

“My love, like what is happening here? You’re supposed to be this great healthy hottie yogi, but now all you do is eat, you’re getting fat. People are starting to talk.”

Into what he replies , “Look feeding people is my yoga. Right now, it’s my anchor into the world, without food I’m gone. Without this, there’s nothing left holding me onto this world. So don’t worry about me eating, worry if I stop eating, for if I do you know I’m ready to leave my body.”

And that’s what happened, he continued to feed people and eat with them for quite some time but eventually one day he stopped eating altogether and was just a few days later that he left his physical body.
Our obsession with the way we look at food leads to suffering.

Do you feel like you’re somehow more godly if you’re skinny?
Less divine if you have Adipose? If you got fat tissue built up in your body?

This idea that you a have to eat certain type of food to be spiritual or that if you’re not eating healthy you can’t be a spiritual being is just ridiculous. It’s a rejection of the fundamental truth that yoga teaches us. That everyone is divine, we’re all divine and we don’t have more or less of that divine within us because we choose to eat one type of food or another.

Next aspect of Lakshmi. Patience.

Now this is one I definitely struggle with. I want things on my schedule done, when I want them done and the result is almost continual stress any time I create some sort of self-imposed deadline on myself or someone else for the world. Now living in Thailand, helped me a lot with this. I grew up in Los Angeles, it seems like I had access to everything at any time, a very sort of self-gratified type thing to just get what I wanted when I wanted. And the American expectation of time and things getting done on schedule pervaded my entire life. It also drove me crazy in my early times in Thailand when Interacting with things and trying to get things done. If someone said, “well, will be there in the morning”, what they actually meant is that they’ll be there in the afternoon. If they said “Oh, we’ll be there in the afternoon, what they actually meant is that they’ll be there tomorrow.”

It just took some time to adjust to but it also removed a ton of anxiety once I kind of got over that hump. Because ultimately who cares if it didn’t get done today? In the grand scheme of life, who cares? It eventually became wonderfully liberating. Now time and schedules are a big trigger for a lot of people in America and people literally feel personally offended if you don’t respect their time like time is a possession that must be protected. If you want to suffer in life, try to hoard time, it points to a desire to control life, to control other people and ourselves and it inevitably will lead to suffering.

As well, telling ourselves we need more patience can also be extremely detrimental like, “Oh, I’m not patient enough, I must not be spiritual enough. I suck.”

So it can really go both ways. What Lakshmi invites us to do is to look at our relationship to patience. She’s not telling us we must force ourselves one way or the other but simply come to a greater understanding of what motivates us.

Our next aspect to look at is Knowledge.

And this is another one that I really struggle with personally, because I always want to know more.

And what’s wrong with knowing more or wanting to learn more, you might ask?

Well it’s because I’m usually coming from the place of, “I don’t have enough knowledge.” I’m a compulsive book buyer because well, this process inside myself that goes well, “if I can just get the knowledge from this book or that book then maybe I’ll be happy, I’ll be satisfied because I’ll know that thing.”

Knowledge is great, learning is great. But it’s helpful to explore our motivations and internal dialogue around these things.

Like what would happen if you didn’t get that knowledge, would you be less divine?
Is that knowledge really going to help you feel more connected to god whatever god might mean to you?
Does not having that knowledge mean that you can’t connect to that to the divine?

So, truly as in the case with all of these aspects of Lakshmi, it’s about our relationship to knowledge that is most helpful to explore. And let’s say that my dharma, my path in life in the world is to do X. Well then maybe I learn about X as part of my dharma, but there’s no less than, simply because you haven’t acquired more knowledge. Being well read for example simply means that you’re more well read, it doesn’t directly mean that you’re a better person just because you have knowledge. So in that sense, we could truly say that it’s one’s application of knowledge that is more important than the quantity of knowledge one possesses. But again, it’s really about looking at our relationship to knowledge.

Next comes Victory (Jiah)

One look at our sporting or business culture should be enough to understand why always seeking victory can be detrimental to the soul. I don’t think there’s anything inherently wrong with competition, but when we’re motivated only by a desire for victory, we’re likely to attempt anything in our attempt to get it no matter what the costs. If you offer your best, that is the ultimate victory. And that doesn’t require you winning something, it simply requires that you be yourself.

Energy or can also be interpreted as of strength is your next aspect Lakshmi to explore. Energy in particular can be a big one in yoga and health circles, like if I only had more energy than I can do all the things that I’d want to do, then I’d be happy. I’m unhappy now, but if I magically had more energy than I need to do stuff, then I’d finally get fulfilled. And that’s just nonsense as poppy cock. Sure it’s nice to have nice and high energy levels, but it’s not going to make you more or less happy. When I can feel all of my chakras and pierce them with the power of Kundalini Shakti of sexual energy, of life force energy, then I’ll be all yogi-like, enlightened and then I’ll be fulfilled. Or whether we’re talking about more energy or we interpret this as strength, it’s the attempts to get more that inevitably lead to delusion of the mind in suffering.

Like, I’m more divine if I’m channeling the energy of Shakti through my chakras.”

I mean it’s silly when you actually think about it. When you’re already completely and utterly filled with the divine. If you think we need more strength, I need more power, I need more strength over people. I need to be able to protect myself, otherwise, I won’t be safe and if I’m not safe, I won’t be happy. And we can keep returning to the story in the devi-mahatmyam, with the Goddess defeating Mahishasura or defeating the unconscious desires of the mind that tell you that you need more of something to be fulfilled. Chasing after Lakshmi, after her gifts becomes the very expression of Mahishasura, are these demon that leads toward suffering, leads you away from the actual gifts of the Goddess because you’re being polled to the desires themselves.

Our next aspect is Power.

I feel like in some ways it doesn’t get more obvious than this one, because stories from across time and cultures in the planet point to the dangers of seeking power. The desire to seek more power seems as old as humankind itself. When one seeks power they inevitably create misery for themselves and others. Another archetype we see though however, is that throughout history we see this image of the reluctant leader and the reluctant leader often making the best leader.

Why?

It is someone who doesn’t want the power, doesn’t seek the power, so they tend not to be corrupted by it, which is often a pretty necessary trait in a leader. When you seek power then you create suffering, and if power leads its way into your life as part of your dharma that’s one thing, but trying to acquire more of it will only lead to trouble.

And that leaves Fortune.

How does fortune differ from wealth?

Well we tend to use the word fortune in our culture to describe someone’s material wealth.
Like “wow. He has a mass, a huge fortune or that probably costs a fortune and so forth”
How we’re using it here is we could say that, fortune has more to do with your circumstance, as in that person had the good fortune to meet someone so, they just missed getting hit by a car or you just made your flight, what good fortune. And I think we can all agree that it would like good fortune, the problem comes when we seek it out or avoid situations because we think we won’t have the good fortune.

“No, that would be too hard”
“No one would accept it.”

They’d fight against it, and we use things like that as an excuse for not doing what we know is what we need to do. When something is done for its own sake, not simply because of the odds or the expectation to get something from it, well we call that play. And play nourishes us in ways that only a child really understands. And don’t seek good fortune, live your life. Do what you know to be right and fortune will find you. The Goddess Lakshmi will bless you.

One final piece that’s not considered one of the eight aspects of luck for me, but it still fits into our conversation today and that’s Beauty.

And people are obsessed with beauty, they want more of it. They pay big money to mutilate their bodies surgically thinking that will make them more beautiful. And they spend countless dollars on clothes and fashion and hopes that the clothes will somehow make them more beautiful.

I was traveling in a certain city recently, and I noticed that a lot of the men were trying really hard to be fashionable, so many of them looked exactly the same and so many of them looked really uncomfortable. It didn’t seem like they’re dressing that way because it’s what they felt good in or what felt right for them and their body. So much of it seemed like they just were wearing those clothes because that’s what they were told was the most stylish, the most attractive thing to wear.  I think this is something that that women have had to deal with since who knows when. And it’s just this cultural idea that put on us all the time that “oh, if you dress this way you’ll be more beautiful”

But beauty shines from the inside, one who’s comfortable with oneself is beautiful, it doesn’t matter what type of clothes they’re wearing. This obsession can also lead people to only want beautiful things around them, beautiful places, people, possessions. To constantly be seeking out beautiful experiences like having a stockpile of travels to beautiful places in the world is somehow really going to fulfill you will make you happy. You seek beauty outside of yourself and it will remain a terminally elusive and unfulfilled, it will stay outside of yourself. If you look inside realize the beauty of the gifts that are not only just inside of you but are you and beauty will be forever revealed.

What are stories today want to show us, what Lakshmu herself is trying to teach us, is don’t seek out these bounties of life, don’t seek money or power or good fortune. Serve the world, help others, seek Vishnu and find the ways that you can help support and preserve the world and then the Goddess will come and again. We don’t need to think of Vishnu as some deity, some being out there, but recognize what Vishnu actually represents, the preservation of the world. When we are willing to step in and support and act as the agent of that, then the blessings and the boons come. But it requires changing our perspective, changing our aim. The aim is not the stuff, the aim is the service, the aim is helping others. You do that and life will grant you all the blessings in the world.

So that’s it for our podcast today. I hope you’ve enjoyed listening. We’ve got a new review to read. This one is from B.B.’s one one one one and they wrote.

“I listen to this podcast as I drive around town, to work and to do errands. It’s so well done, that I sit in the car to allow a section to finish before I turn it off. Ashton Szabo was a great storyteller, I love how he gets to the heart of the story in describes the symbolism and deeper meanings. It’s true many yoga practitioners, have taken the physical yoga to the limit and are seeking to move inward and learn the energetic aspects of the practice. This podcast provides the entry for those who want to learn. I especially love the episode that discuss decoding the mystical symbols and sacred art, my dancing Nataraja statue has been moved out of the bedroom, his energy was too much for the bedroom. Please bring back it Ekhabumi Elic. Thank you so much for this fantastic podcast. I look forward to each episode.”

I’m glad you enjoyed it B.B.’s, thank you so much for the kind words and the glowing review. I could Ekhabumi is actually a good friend of mine, he’s got a couple of big projects going on right now, but I do intend on having him back on the show sometime in the future. So definitely look for that.

For all of our listeners out there. Please go to iTunes, subscribe on our channel, leave an honest review and some feedback. We want to offer the things that you want to hear and want to learn about. As always thank you to Zack Cooper, for all the work that he does on the sound engineering front, making all these episodes come to life.

Thank you sivanna spirit for making these podcasts possible, to all of our listeners out there thank you for listening and sharing this moment with us. I’m Ashton Szabo, this is the sivanna podcast. I hope you all have a blessed present moment. Namaste

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You’ve been listening to the Sivana podcast, to find out more about Sivana, go to sivanaspirit.com or follow Sivana on Facebook at facebook.com/sivanaspirit. For daily inspiration, check out our blog at sivanaeast.com. Be sure to join us next week for a new episode and thank you for listening to the Sivana podcast.

About Brett Larkin

Brett is the founder of Uplifted Yoga, an online yoga and meditation community empowering students to personalize their practice and ignite their best life – on and off the mat. She’s instructed at top studios, companies like Google and Pinterest, and leads the world’s most interactive Online Yoga Teacher Training program. She teaches to a social media following of over 150K people. Her content on Youtube is streamed for 2 million minutes each month.

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