How Can I Make My Wife Happy?

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We all have heard the saying “Happy Wife, Happy Life”. Marriage is wonderful, but it takes work. When the wife continuously experiences respect, that’s when one is considered to have learnt to become a perfect husband. There will be some rough patches along the way, and there will be days when you will be smiling ear to ear. We may think that wives need something lavishing to make herself happy. But in reality, all humans have similar needs for connection, honesty, support and validation.

Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan says “One is not to win the world, he has to win the home (family)”.

By using some simple tips, you will learn how to make your wife happy:

1. Become friends for life, not a husband. Husband and wife are considered friends. There should be lot of peace between them and should run the home like true friends. Friendship between husband and wife is the highest friendship of all.

2. Use words of appreciation. Apply the Guru-mantra that you do not like being away from her. You should express your love and appreciation to your wife in order to have a happy marriage life.

3. Bring about harmony in marriage life. We would have our differences of opinion and not everyone has same viewpoints. But the ultimate knowledge is when no one is hurt to the slightest degree. At the end, husband and wife should feel like there is no one else in life other than each other. That’s when there will always be harmony in marriage.

4. Improve relationship. Always respect your wife’s side of the family. Improve your relationship with your wife to an extent that she herself will tell you to take care of your parents.

5. Loyalty. Once you have given the commitment, you must want to be 100% loyal to your wife to have a happy married life.

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6. Unity in opinions. Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan has given us a key, “we are all one and there is no difference in us”. We should repeat this 5 times every morning for the rest of the life. He showed us the path to Adjust Everywhere. Whoever makes a suggestion first, the other person should adjust accordingly.

7. Improve your life. During workday, do not leave your home with any quarrels; and when coming back home, leave your work problems at workplace. During holidays, plan the day with an outing, nice meal, and help out with house chores with the approval of your wife.

When dealing with your spouse, it is not worth looking at good or bad, right or wrong. Whatever works is good and what does not work is bad. The key thing is to live life without any conflicts. If you feel that an argument is going to ignite, try to cool it down immediately. You do not want to show your power on each other.

Majority of the arguments are related to children or money. Even if you have to lose $200, do not create conflict. The conflict can cost you double in addition to the tension created around the house. The best approach should be to use wise words. When talking to your wife, what you say matters the most. Use words of kindness and appreciation. Be flexible and make a firm commitment to adjust with each other.

Until you acquire the knowledge of your Self, until you have the realization, “My real nature is pure Soul”, you need to continue following these tips.

The stepless path to Self-Realization called Akram Science, is a wonder in itself. Without performing any external rituals, you get to realize your Self, and without leaving your wife, you feel liberated within. You will start understanding every aspect of your wife’s personality. After attaining Self Realization, if you put in the effort, then you can recognize her personality easily. Once you do this, it will be easy to handle any situation lovingly. When you study your spouse’s personality, you are able to recognize her likes and dislikes, which enables you to act accordingly to avoid conflict.

Your wife is your soulmate and since you are her partner for life, you have to make every effort to make sure your relationship is a happy one. There are so many ways to make your wife happy, and none of them have to do with perfection. Working consistently each day to be the best possible partner is what ultimately will lead to a healthy, fulfilling marriage. With Akram Science and expertise on your side, now the ball’s in your court!