4 Spiritual Lessons From The Big Lebowski: Abiding In Dudeism
The Dude Abides
I grew up in a very strict Christian home.
I rebelled, researched world religions relentlessly, and got burned by churches over and over, all while trying to figure out the meaning of life.
Then, for the first time in years, I watched the Coen brothers’ cult classic, The Big Lebowski.
A friend, documentary director Eddie Chung, had just released a film titled The Achievers which followed Lebowski fans all over the country to conventions and events, chronicling competitions and viewing parties.
Not only was following the cult film a lifestyle, but a religion had been built around it called Dudeism.
Once I watched the film, I applied and, for a modest fee, was ordained as a Dudeist priest by the Church of the Latter Day Dude.
A certificate came in the mail, entitling me to perform weddings, funerals, and like, whatever, man.
It was a joke. Kind of.
At the same time, much to the horror of some people around me, I began to research Buddhism and the philosophy behind the religion.
I found just what I had been looking for, and it centered around the things Dudeism and Buddhism had in common.
For those not familiar with the film, ‘The Dude’ is a guy named Jeff Lebowski who is mistaken for an apparently much wealthier dude, also named Jeff Lebowski.
This causes the Dude’s rug to be first soiled upon, then stolen, launching a series of events including a supposed kidnapping, fraud, an encounter with nihilists, and several bowling-related incidents.
The movie stars Jeff Bridges as the Dude, John Goodman as Walter, and Steve Buscemi as Donny.
The three attempt to recover the Dude’s rug, which turns out to be much more difficult than it at first appears, as “new information comes to light.”
Dudeism Exists Without the Dude
“No, man, you’re Mr. Lebowski. I’m ‘The Dude.’ …Or ‘Duder,’ or ‘His Dudeness,’ or ‘El Duderino’ if you’re not into the whole brevity thing.”
This is the Dude’s answer when the wealthier Jeff Lebowski calls him “Mr. Lebowski.” The Dude was clearly expressing his view of his identity.
Buddha was not a Buddhist, and the Dude was not a Dudeist. He was just “the Dude.”
The religions that followed are the attempt of others to communicate their message to change the world.
The Dude was just abiding (we take comfort in that) and Buddha was a great teacher.
Religion is just a vehicle by which those teachings are spread.
But both Dudeism and Buddhism are more lifestyles than traditional religions.
They center around the practice of a philosophy rather than a rigid set of rules.
This Aggression Will Not Stand
The bad guy is suffering, and the biggest cause of suffering is ego.
The biggest cause of ego is attachment to identity.
Buddhism does not define attachment the way many of us think about it.
Zen teacher John Daido Loori said, “According to the Buddhist point of view, nonattachment is exactly the opposite of separation. You need two things in order to have attachment: the thing you’re attaching to, and the person who’s attaching. In non attachment, on the other hand, there’s unity. There’s unity because there’s nothing to attach to. If you have unified with the whole universe, there’s nothing outside of you, so the notion of attachment becomes absurd. Who will attach to what?”
We can use The Big Lebowski as a parable of sorts.
Never Roll on Shomer Shabbos
One of the first things I came to understand about Buddhism was that beliefs were not controlled.
Although many Buddhists believe in reincarnation, not all do.
In fact, there are several belief systems within Buddhism.
Those who practice Buddhist teachings are actually allowed to believe anything they want while they practice.
Many things emphasized by other religions are not critical to the practice of Buddhism at all.
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This is Not ‘Nam—There Are Rules
The Four Noble Truths and the Eightfold Path are often presented like a list of rules, or dos and don’ts, but what is “right”?
The rules listed in the eightfold path should not be taken as commandments, as in “do this, or you are wrong,” but rather like a physician’s treatment plan for a disease.
They are guidelines which, when followed, result in positive outcomes.
The First Noble Truth: Life is About Strikes and Gutters
Often this truth is stated as “life is suffering.”
But the Pali word dukkha also refers to anything that is temporary, conditional, or compounded of other things.
Even something precious and enjoyable is dukkha, because it will end.
Whether you’re on a roll tonight or throwing gutters, there’s no need to be attached to the outcome.
This, however, is easier said than done.
The Second Noble Truth: There’s a Beverage Here, Man
The cause of “suffering” is related to craving or thirst, the search for something outside ourselves to make us happy.
The entire plot of the Big Lebowski is the Dude’s search for his rug: what once made him happy, and what he hopes will “tie the room together” and make him happy again.
Truthfully, the key to the Dude’s happiness and our own lies within us.
The Third Noble Truth: New Information Has Come To Light
The good news in Buddhism is the Buddha taught that with mindful practice, we can put an end to craving, and thus, bring suffering to an end.
Ending this cycle is called enlightenment.
This is the point at which the larger picture becomes clearer, as “new information comes to light,” and we understand the futility of attachment and craving.
The Fourth Noble Truth: Lots of Ins and Outs and What-Have-Yous
The eightfold path to enlightenment offers the method of mindful practice, or the treatment of the disease of attachment.
These steps, while they seem complicated at first, can be followed, and enlightenment achieved.
Sometimes, attachments are lost along the way, but things tend to balance out.
That’s how the whole durned thing works.
The Dude Abides
The Big Lebowski, combined with my own search for truth, led me toward enlightenment.
The parallels combined with the humor and subtle journey of the Dude aided my understanding.
I hope it does yours as well. Because seeking enlightenment, becoming a Buddha or a Dude, is possible for all of us.
Although we may struggle, it’s good to know the Dude is out there, abiding for all of us sinners.
I take comfort in that.
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