December Final Full Moon In Cancer: Breaking The Chains Of Codependency!…

December Final Full Moon In Cancer: Breaking The Chains Of Codependency!

“When we are codependent, our number one priority is our ego.”

Hi Stargazers,

Imagine your life free of obligation and the addiction to old patterns keeping you from true love and life? This Full Moon asks you, “Who is the ruler of my reality?”

2020 began with a Full Moon in Cancer, and it’s going to end with a Full Moon in Cancer on December 30, 2020! What are the odds!?

There is definitely a cosmic portal linking this December Full Moon to the Full Moon Lunar Eclipse in Cancer in January 2020. We have the omega and the alpha right within reach so that we can time travel and undo all the 2020 chaos! Join me in my Full Moon Online Workshop to do some 2020 time travel and shift the timelines into higher vibrations!

As I wrote back in January, “The new year is off to a transformative start as this Lunar Eclipse echoes in the energy from December’s Solar Eclipse (in 2019).” We know that the China Virus broke out around the same time at the end of 2019, so we really have a big opportunity to bring healing as Cancer is the healer of the Zodiac.

This makes the December Full Moon in Cancer a welcomed lunation for anyone who wants to heal themselves and the world! Specifically, this Full Moon is the time when we can also break the chains of codependency and addiction.

Codependency merits its own class, which I will go over in my Full Moon Online Workshop, but briefly stated, it is the root cause for much of the chaos we are experiencing now. Codependency is defined as “excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, typically one who requires support on account of an illness or addiction.” And who isn’t addicted to something or ill of something these days?! Meaning, codependency, and addiction run rampant in more areas than we realize!

We can be addicted to our phones, our feed, or what people think of us, or even sex and weed. Breaking the chains of addiction, and codependency is extremely difficult, and it’s even a bit threatening because we sense that once we do break free, everything will change in our lives.

The truth is that when we are codependent, our number one priority is our ego which wants to be loved, seen, adored, even hated, or attacked (fill in the blank yourself), as long as it’s getting the energy it needs to govern your life. Codependency is tricky because it can disguise itself as love when really it is just an unhealthy attachment or even outright hatred.

Given that the China Virus impacted the world exactly at the same time as the Chinese New Year of the Rat (which is sneaky and quick) and that the next Chinese New Year is the Metal Ox, we need to get a head start on breaking the chains of codependence. The Metal Ox can bring up themes of idol worship (think golden calf) in lieu of true spiritual connection. The Universe has magically scheduled this Full Moon to give us that head start. Whether we use it or not is another story.

Now is the time to break off from the chains of codependency and establish healthy attachments that are free of pain, permission seeking, fear, dishonesty, tongue biting, manipulation, bad habits, low self-esteem, addictions, bipolar tendencies, laziness, entitlement, self-pity, overeating and even weight loss (this Full Moon is great for those new year’s resolutions I’d say!)

We can truly attain a state of honest reciprocity and interdependence in place of selfishness and codependence.

What Does The Full Moon Mean?

There is a reason why many people feel out of balance during the Full Moon: It is a time of great transformative energy, and most people are not equipped to handle it. That is why I offer my Full Moon Online Workshops, so that you may safely access this power to dismantle your challenges and activate your strengths and virtues.

Although every Full Moon amplifies the power to melt down obstacles, each lunar event has a unique planetary configuration and thus unique transformative qualities.

This Full Moon is connecting us to the power of healing and reciprocation. You can use the Center and Cancer Essential Oil Blends to help activate this power and release addiction and other codependency.

Cancer is a very emotional sign and tends to get weighed down and caught up in negative emotions. With the Full Moon occurring in Cancer we will be in a position to use our emotions to fuel positive actions. At the same time, we will have to let go of protecting our past hurts so that we can begin truly acting from our heart and not acting out problems.

The Question Of This Quest.

In DASH® Astrology, the Full Moon is a time of reflection, when each of the archetypes asks us a specific question to assist us on our quest. In order to see which obstacles we need to remove, each Full Moon poses a unique question for reflection, as the Sun and Moon are in opposition – reflecting back to each other the Light of Truth. As this opposition occurs, a 48-hour space is rendered do us to operate within. This space is made of stardust atoms that interact with your being on all levels.

In this particular cycle, we can access the best of us beyond any quality of duality, by asking ourselves the following question:

Who is the ruler of the world? Who is the ruler of my reality? Why?

For more insight and spiritual growth join in my Full Moon Online Workshop to be guided through an obstacle removing meditation:


I will go into depth about this in my Online Workshop. For those of you working on your own, contemplate the above question during the Full Moon window and write down any insights that may come so that you can have a greater idea of what to work on. I suggest using chrysocolla and cancer essential oil as altar items to support this ongoing process.

Have a wonderful Full Moon of Cancer and I thank you for being the one who makes a difference by using DASH® Astrology.

There is a lot of power and light to be had with this Full Moon of Cancer, depending on where it’s happening in your chart. We can control our actions so that we can manifest our destiny. If you’re serious about moving on with the wonderful Full Moon of Cancer, you can access the online workshop. If you want to watch the most recent Online Workshop to get an idea of what it’s like, check out the archives.

For easy participation, be sure to download the Zodiac Hacks Sun/Moon Workbook to optimize the energies and imagine the life you intend.

I hope you have found this complimentary forecast useful and insightful. If you want to give back and support my work, please consider a donation for this article.


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