5 Ways To Catch And Keep A Virgo Woman
Warmhearted, charming and mysterious, the Virgo woman is so simple — yet complex — to figure out. You want to pursue her, but you have trouble figuring out where to start. Sometimes you wish she came with instructions…
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1) Slow and steady wins the race
Before the Virgo woman makes a decision, she thoroughly analyzes the entire situation. She looks for all possible benefits, and all possible consequences. She is well aware that people put on their best behavior during the “honeymoon stage” of a relationship so she will wait patiently to see the real you. This is a woman who will study and test her potential love partner!
Do: Show your Virgo lady that you respect her by going with her flow. Show her you are interested without being overbearing. Virgo’s are usually private so stay away from too many personal questions, she is an open book once she trusts you. She is not a believer in “love at first site”. Understand that she wants to make sure you two won’t waste each others time. She needs to be absolutely certain that you will fit in her world, fluidly. Your patience will be well worth it.
Don’t: If you want to scare off your Virgo, talk about marriage during the first few dates. Talk about sex or make sexual gestures. Tell her she is silly for being cautious. I guarantee you she will run for the hills.
2) Affection and space
Virgo women absolutely love to be around their partner. They like hanging out, cuddling and being intimate, like most people do. But Virgos also value their space. They are thinkers, they love to spend a lot of time in their minds, without distraction. Don’t be surprised if your Virgo lady spontaneously retreats into her own world.
Do: Encourage her to take a break. She won’t isolate herself and ignore you. She will probably do something as simple as going into a different room from you and get lost in a book, or take a long walk while listening to music. She just needs to recharge her batteries.
Don’t: Make her feel guilty for needing alone time. Virgos spend most of their lives gladly serving their friends, family, kids, and spouses. They don’t want to lose their identity in these roles, so they will always make time for themselves. Don’t be clingy. She will feel smothered and eventually want to stay away from you more often.
3) Appreciate her
This is an obvious one right? Wrong! Out of all the signs, Virgos are most likely to be taken for granted. This is because they take care of everything, discreetly. They are the definition of “behind the scene workers”. They are the people who will remember your cousin’s sister’s uncle’s birthday, remind you of it, and suggest the perfect gift you should give him. People usually don’t realize how much Virgo women do to keep everything together until they stop.
Do: Virgo women don’t do what they do for a pat on the back, they do it because it’s in their nature. Still, they are human. They don’t mind seeing proof that their hard work isn’t going completely unnoticed. Tell her you appreciate her. Send her flowers with a handwritten “thank you” note attached to them.
Don’t: Don’t get too comfortable. She will notice when you stop saying thank you. She will feel offended when you start expecting her to clean up after you. She will feel a little insecure when you stop complimenting her hair and telling her she smells great. She will start to seek appreciation from others.
4) Stimulate her mind
Having an intelligent partner is imperative to a Virgo woman. She is someone who loves to learn about (and talk about) everything under the sun. Virgos are ruled by Mercury, the planet of expression and communication, therefore, they are good at both talking and listening. These are women who are turned on by intellectual conversation.
Do: Share what you know! If you are knowledgeable about a certain topic that she knows little about, she will gladly listen to you explain it. If she’s passionate about things that you don’t know much about, take note and research those things. Impress her with your mind.
Don’t: Superficial conversation can be exhausting for Virgo women. Don’t talk to her about the guy you were about to fight on your way to work the other day, or how your last Facebook post got 74 likes. Boring conversation is a deal breaker for Virgos. Make your first impression your best impression.
5) Be the backbone
Virgo women are known for being proudly independent and handling everything on their own. What most people don’t know is that Virgo women actually want a partner they can depend on. These women dream of having a trusted spouse who will provide, secure the household, and lead her. She is a picky woman for a good reason. If you can’t meet her expectations, she will politely reject you, and continue handling her business.
Do: She stands by “If you want something done right, do it yourself”. Reassure her that she can trust you. Prove to her that you are the man for the job. When she starts to feel like she has the weight of the world on her shoulders, find a way to take a load off of her. Show her that it’s safe to depend on you. Make sure you mean what you say and say what you mean.
Don’t: Don’t pursue her if you have nothing to contribute. This is a practical woman who is more logic based than emotional based. Love alone will not keep her attached to you. If you can’t keep up with the demands of being in a mature relationship, she will literally view you as a child, and treat you accordingly.
Don’t get overwhelmed by all of the Virgo woman’s “rules and regulations”. It’s all quite easy if you like her enough to understand her. She is a loyal and passionate lover. Virgos are considered the wives of the zodiac. Trust that your thought, effort, and persistence will certainly pay off!
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